Saturday, December 18, 2010

Red Shoes

Today I saw a woman wearing a pair of really great red heels.  I don't own a pair of red shoes, but if I did, I would want THOSE.  They were simple, yet so super sexy and classy.  The kind that could go with anything - jeans, slacks, a suit for work, a (rare) date night with the hubby, lunch with the girls, whatever.  I really wanted to ask the woman where she got her shoes from, but she was on her cell phone in what seemed to be an intense conversation... darn. 

I must confess, a few years ago, a girlfriend and I were in Bloomingdale's where I spotted a pair of red shoes that I absolutely fell in love with.  Anyone who knows me knows that I absolutely NEVER ever pay full retail price for anything.  Something about those shoes made me break that rule, and after much contemplation, I purchased them.  However, when I got home, I instantly had buyer's remorse... I hated myself for spending so much money on one pair of shoes and returned them the following day. 

Now, more than ever, I think MORE than twice whenever I buy anything for myself.  When I see a price, I compare it to the number of diapers and wipes that I can buy for my son.  I think about the clothes my child will need since he's growing so quickly.  I think of the milk he consumes every day, and all the other items he needs.  I think of the fun books I could buy him instead, or maybe an educational toy he could benefit from.  Then somewhere in there I also think about his education and what it's going to cost me over the next 21+ years. 

So, I'm glad that said lady was on the phone and that I wasn't able to ask her where she got her fabulous shoes from.  I've got plenty in my closet don't need another pair.  Wow... never thought I'd feel this way about shoes... LOL!

2 comments:

Mrs. J said...

Hey Rock Star,
I totally know what you are saying. I feel exactly the same way sometimes. And I remember my mom saying something along the lines of, "Before you were born, I bought myself all sorts of nice things. And then when you were born I could hardly buy myself a decent dress for Christmas."

It's totally a rite of passage. But I don't want you to forget that you DESERVE nice stuff too--if you take pride in how you look, you'll feel happier and smile more. And a happy, smiling mom makes for a happy, smiling baby too! If you ever see those red shoes on sale, snap 'em up and rock them in the office!

Love you,
XOXO

Meet Me Under the City Lights said...

Try going on www.urbanog.com. They have some cheap, cute shoes. :)